“It takes years to become one,
And minutes to look like one!”
‘And It Harm None, Do What Thou Wilt!’ Eight little words, very insignificant to the majority of the people of the world, but to a Wiccan, they are the most important words ever spoken. The very life of a Wiccan revolves around them, every word spoken, every thing that they do, and every thought that they may have is determined by those eight little words that are known as the ‘Wiccan Rede’.
As the phrase at the beginning of this chapter said, ‘It takes years to become one, and minutes to look like one’, are truer than you could ever imagine. Now, I’m not saying that it will take you years to learn what is in these pages, I’m saying that it will take you years to perfect the knowledge within your own life, and to live it properly.
I mentioned that the Rede controls our words, deeds, and thoughts. It truly does, and the reason is that a true Wiccan, one who has affiliated themselves with the Goddess and nature are no longer a mere mortal. They are transformed into a ‘magickal being’. And this is where the BIG difference lies. For an ordinary mortal, a thought is a personal thing. No one else knows what it is, and it could never hurt another thing. The thoughts of the ordinary mortal are as harmful as the petals of a rose. But the thoughts of a true Wiccan can be as dangerous as the thorns on an African Thorn Bush! You see, when you are transformed, you utilize the energies of the universe within your body and mind. Your mind focuses that energy and directs it toward a particular purpose, intended or not. This is the reason that the thoughts of a Wiccan must not harm anything.
This makes learning and living by the Wiccan Rede the most difficult lesson to learn because most, if not all, life patterns must be unlearned and then relearned. The manner of living for the Neophyte, or first initiate, is truly difficult at first. The ethics of their old life keep cropping up and interfering with their new life. It used to be all right to get angry at someone or something and to vent that anger openly. Now, that anger needs to be controlled and rationalized before it can be directed anywhere. This is why the Wicca live by a stricter code of Ethics and Honor than even the most devout Christian ever thought of or even had nightmares of! Why?
First of all, Wicca is a religion of Self Redemption. The members of the common religion can pretty well do what they want, to whom ever they want, and know that they will be forgiven for their ‘Sins’ on Sunday. This is very comforting for them, but not us.
To be Self Redeeming, means to bear the full responsibility for everything that we say or do. If we were to harm another person, there is not a person, place, or thing that we can go to for forgiveness. Even the Goddess herself! Fortunately, as a Neophyte, the little mistakes that you make along the way in your learning have little or no consequences by the simple fact of the level of power that you posses. And will be little or no threat to you or anyone else. Which is a good thing, but, the big mistakes like an intentional attempt to harm another can and does have an affect. This is why you must begin to be cognizant of attitude, emotion, and thoughts. Learn to train yourself to be peaceful in mind and action.
When you have taken your first initiation, you will begin to ’sense’ others of the Craft. You will know them, without knowing them. This is one of the ‘Secrets Which Cannot Be Told’, you experience it. Study the way that they act, their mannerisms, their attitudes. Very seldom will you ever find a Wiccan that acts like a nun or monk, but you will find that they act very differently than others. That is if they are truly Wiccan, but if they weren’t, you wouldn’t feel them would you?
When you ’sense’ a true Wiccan, first look for identifying jewelry and/or tattoos. Make a complimentary remark about them. This will ‘break the ice’. We of the Wicca make friends very quickly, because we are of like minds. You will soon find yourself among the rest of the Wiccan community, one that you didn’t even know to exist. Learn from them, as well as this book. As you learn, you will find the transition to the ways of the Wicca very easy.
The second law of the Wicca is probably the most important one to remember, it is known as ‘The Rule of Three’ or the ‘Rule of Rebound’. It exemplifies the embodiment of Self Redemption.
As you grow within the Craft, the level of power that you posses within you will increase as well. As you begin to cause things to happen by use of this power, you will begin to feel the effects of the ‘Rule of Three’. When you do a good thing, like healing with your energy or with herbs, you will notice that positive energy will almost immediately return to you in any number of ways. But when you do something that you know is bad, it also returns to you on one of many ways. Most of the time, while you are learning, the Goddess, Herself, will ’slap’ your hand and remind you never to do that again. Don’t laugh, it really does happen. Just ask your new friends!
There is a very ancient warning, “Curse nor Hex not be made by thee, for what thou send comes back times three!” I’ll cover this in greater detail in another chapter, but suffice it to say that what you do is revisited, sometimes dramatically.
Let’s take an example of these two aspects of the Rule of Three. First the positive…
Consider, once you have learned the ways of using herbs to heal, you have gathered and purchased the herbs that you need to solve a health problem that causes you a great deal of pain and discomfort. Then a friend of yours is telling you of a problem that she has that is identical to your own and asks you for help with it. With the altruistic nature of a Wiccan, you would consider the health of your friend before your own. You give the herbs to her without question or hesitation, knowing that you will continue to suffer because you don’t have the means to get the herbs again.
By the mere action of compassion that you performed, the means by regaining the herbs to heal your self will come to you. With the Rule of Three, good actions result in whatever you need, will come to you. We have a saying, ‘ The Goddess provides what you need, when you need it. Not a moment before or a moment after.’
Next we will examine an example of the negative aspect of the Rule of Three. This is a true story, and because of this I want to impress upon you the importance of the lesson you are about to learn.
A Wiccan priest that I knew, about fifteen years ago, was by nature a rather hostile driver. He was the kind that would be better off on a road in another country. Anyway, one day he was driving along when an older gentleman cut him off abruptly. This made the priest very angry, and he caused the other driver to veer off of the road and crash into a ditch. The old driver was taken to the hospital by ambulance, and the priest was taken to jail.
The older driver lost the use of his legs for the next year and a half. The priest lost his freedom, also for a year and a half. The older driver regained use of his legs and went on with his life, but when the priest was released from jail, the first time he got behind the wheel of his car, he ran off the road and crashed. Unfortunately, he lost the use of his legs, for life.
Because of the anger and emotion that the priest placed into the act, the causation was revisited on him three fold. This is why I can never impress upon you enough the Laws of the Wicca.
Finally, there is one law which is known as the ‘Law of the Goddess’. It states that ‘Love is the Law, and Love is the Bond!’ In Her infinite wisdom, the meaning is as clear as her finest crystal. We show love and compassion toward every living being, and sometimes the dead. We never hate or discriminate. All are equal in our eyes. Black, white, yellow, red, brown, green, gay, lesbian, straight, curved, fat, thin, Christian, Jew, Muslim, Hindu, Buddhist, Taoist, or even a nail biter from Alpha Centauri! As long as their path is true and clear, Blessed Be!